Living positively with illness
Death and loss
You’ll Get Over It by Virginia Ironside
Who Dies? by Stephen Levine
A Need for Living by Tom Gordon
Grief: The Great Yearning by Pat Bertram
A Journey through Grief by Nick Owen
Outside the Box by Maria Miendl
The Long Goodbye by Meghan O’Rourke – a memoir about grieving her mother’s death
After a death, care of the body, funerals
See Funeral Planning Guides with reading recommendations.
Books for Children
Thanks to CHAS, the Children’s Hospice Association Scotland, for their suggestions for children and young people:
When Uncle Bob Died, Althea and Sarah Wimperis
Let’s Talk about Feeling Angry, Joy Berry and Maggie Smith
When Dinosaurs Die, L K and M Brown
Nana Upstairs and Nana Downstairs, T DePaola
Sad Isn’t Bad, M Mundy
Come Back Grandma, S Limb
Help Me Say Goodbye: Activities to help kids cope, J Silverman
Remembering Mum, G Perkins and L Morris
Badger’s Parting Gifts, S Varley
I Miss You, Pat Thomas
Muddles, Puddles and Sunshine: An activity book, D Crossly
When Someone has a Very Serious Illness: drawing out feelings, M Heegaard
When Something Terrible Happens, M Heegaard
When Someone Very Special Dies, M Heegaard
When a Family is in Trouble, M Heegard
When Mum Died, S Hollins and L Sireling
A Dragon in your Heart, S Leblanc
Forever in my Heart, J Levine
What on earth do you do when someone dies? T Romain
Water Bugs and Dragonflies, D Stickney
The Secret C: Talking Straight about Cancer, Julie Stokes
A volcano in my tummy: handling anger, E Whitehouse and W Pudney
Sad, Michael Rosen
Rabbityness, Jo Empson
Badger’s Parting Gifts, Susan Varley
Goodbye Chicken Little, B Byars
When Someone Dies, Children’s Grief Workbook, G Costello
Finding a Way Through When Someone Close Has Died, P Mood and L Whittaker
Gaffer Samson’s Luck, Jill Walsh Paton
See reading tips for children from Lorna Bradbury of The Telegraph.
I Never Told Her I Loved Her, Sandra Chick
John’s Book, J Fuller
A Sound of Chariots, Mollie Hunter
Straight Talk About Death For Teenagers, E Grollman
The Charlie Barber Treatment, Carole Lloyd
On Eagle’s Wings, Sue Mayfield
Steve: A Story About Death, Marjorie Newman
Healing Your Grieving Heart For Teens, Alan Wolfelt
A schools project in Perth, Scotland, brought together CRUSE, the bereavement charity’s with the schools and NHS to provide support and resources for teachers, parents and children. See their extensive reading list.
Life and mortality
Staring at the Sun by Irvin D Yalom – explores being at peace with your own mortality.
On the Shortness of Life by Greek philosopher, Seneca
Dying to Know, Andrew Anastasios: A great book to have around as a signal that death is a part of everyday life. It’s full of great images, photos, artwork, snippets of facts and figures, quirky quotes and thoughts. A light and interesting ‘let’s face it’ kind of book.
The Denial of Death (1974 Pulitzer Prize) Ernest Becker explores life, death + spirituality.
Mortality’s Muse: the fine art of dying D.T. Siebert
The Fault in our Stars John Green: “a soulful novel that tackles big subjects – life, death, love”.
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